Touching, feeling, pleasing to the senses is not only an art but a mystery where forces converge and emotions of all kinds which may lead us to discover an unknown delicacy of pleasurable sensations. The touching, kissing, the special handling of the skin and muscles are usually the input letter of an erotic massage. However, there are many ways you can prepare a good massage and sexual venture into this labyrinth.
We know in sex and love there are no magic formulas or recipes. But we can probe some basic points to be able to take off to new erotic and more intense sensations, knowing that it is always helpful to know certain keys to make the moment a real experience of pleasure
What is erotic massage?
It is also known as sexual massage, and is not only to seduce the sexual parts, but all the senses. Its aim is to provoke joy and stimulate arousal. It is usually accomplished by stimulating the skin and muscles, which began to raise the rest of the senses. It can be done in many ways and with different intensities, this depends mainly on the lovers.
Knowing how to seduce is a basic ingredient to give an erotic massage. For this there is no recipe, but there are points that should be taken into account.
- Choosing a time: it is something basic to give a massage, because the rush or interruptions restrict sexual feelings. The best is a calm place and an hour when you don’t have anything to do. Disconnecting the phone and the doorbell is a great idea so you can feel free to "land connections."
- Create an environment where you feel comfortable with a pleasant temperature, the aromas shouldn’to be strong. Avoid using perfumes and accessories, if any, in a tone very discreet. Take a bath to relax, if you are female, you can add a bit of essence of roses, jasmine or cinnamon to your bath to give a very subtle scent to your skin. It is advisable not to use makeup.
- Have on hand special oils and lotions for massage: take creams to be absorbed and also can create an unpleasant taste in the skin when you want to stimulate the lips or tongue.
- One advantage is that sexual massage relaxes muscles, dissipates pressure and calms your mind, which can help you enjoy more of your sexual approach and become more spontaneous.
The skin and erotic massage
The skin is the largest sensory organ of the body, with an approximate area of 18,000 cm2 and with a million and half of receptors or nerve endings. The skin plays an important role in erotic massage, is the main point of contact to begin the seduction.
Learn to use your hands
Hands can express tenderness, caring, desire and love, are one of the main tools of sexual pleasure in this game, a basic contact for massage. With them we can play to create feelings with different types of pressure and landslides.
First contact with the hands: the lovers tend to fall in a game with caresses and kisses at first. This is often the golden keys to unlock any sexual massage. Massage can begin even when you're dressed, gently rub the clothes over the body can create a very pleasant feeling, especially because in some cases, you can enjoy trying to beat the border of the clothing (see clothes to stimulate sensuality) or to guess what lies beneath them. At this point, you can play in many ways to slide your fingers down the body, raising some clothes or moving gently place, without removing it. You can start, for example, by making intermittent gentle pressure as you slide your fingers down the legs, back, arms or face, make contact with your fingers subtly disappear and reappear. Avoid touching the sexual organs at first, overcome the temptation and enjoy a stroll through the body and discovering how all this can create sexual feelings.
Movement with hands: prevent any mechanical movement, remember that you must also enjoy the contact, which can be a little tense the first few times, but if you practice slowly, you will be better.
The hands and mouth on the naked body
Contact must be very soft, suggestive and warm. The application of oil should be gradual. Although there is no recipe to start giving an erotic massage, it is suggested to start with the extremities: first hands or feet, then the back and head, and then move on to the chest area, then the thighs and groin, and at the end of the buttocks and genitals. Try to postpone the massage of the genitals as much as possible. Before coming to them, pass through the armpit, side chest, waist, feet and knees, which are very sensitive to stimulation. Try to do with your mouth or your tongue, and let your saliva serves as a lubricant.
They are the most sensitive areas of the body and are the mouth, the lower lobe of the ear, neck, breasts, genitalia, perineum and anus. Leave these parts for later; make sure you have gone through all the body with your mouth and hands, then, venture into these areas. Your mouth is a tool to stimulate unsurpassed anywhere in the body, moisture is conducive to excitement. .
This is an ingredient that should not fail from the beginning. Although there are methods to stimulate the body, if you're with your partner, do not forget that massage is an adventure of discovery of pleasure for both, as if you let yourself go for a walk in the forest of feelings in your body and your partner.